A brief update ... I've had a fantastically successful week of work in Japan. We've been working with our partners here developing and configuring a system for a refinery, and today we had a meeting with them and got very positive feedback, which was very rewarding. I'm totally loving being in Japan again! So much seems so familiar even after a long absence. I've posted photos of the trip so far online.

Danielle has been doing a sterling job at home with Charis being sick with high temperatures - a bug that's going around Cape Town... Loving and missing the three of them loads!

Tomorrow I go down to Nagoya for a few days to see old friends for the first time in three years. It's quite amazing to think about it! On Monday I have a business meeting in Nagoya, then return to Tokyo on Tuesday to catch my flight back via Singapore and Joburg to Cape Town.

Some brief news updates after a long hiatus:

• Charis had an eye operation in July to correct a squint. She was very brave and the operation was successful! We're grateful. She still wears very cute glasses
• David's off to Japan on a work trip for 10 days. He will be in Tokyo for a week working with partners and clients there, and in Nagoya for a few days seeing friends and sorting out company business.
• James is heading towards the end of his 3-year maintenance chemo treatment at the end of the year, and starting primary school (at Grove) next year.
• Charis has been enjoying a playgroup four mornings a week and is going to the same wonderful preschool that James has been at next year.
• I've posted some photos from David's sister Anni's visit last weekend

In a slight break from our normal family news...

Charis experimented with inserting a mini audio jack into the power connector that plugs into my (David's) work Dell laptop.
It produced no auditory success, but bent the pin inside the power connector. I managed to straighten it, but it subsequently came off inside the laptop power socket.

This pin seems to communicate that it is a valid Dell Power supply, and without it being connected properly the battery will not charge. My battery ran so low that I couldn't use suspend when moving the laptop around because I had so little battery power left... (see my plea for help if you want the gory details)

I got a new power supply, but still needed to work out how to extract the pin from the laptop (it was not sticking out at all, and there was no way to grab it with tweezers/pliers etc). I was too nervous of breaking the new power supply or something inside the laptop to try and connect the new power supply.

I tried soldering onto the pin so I could then pull out the solder but all I achieved was melting some of the plastic on the outside. I had various suggestions ranging from superglue on a needle to magnets, nitric acid, and drilling it out. I asked my friend Ian who said he'd have a look... he simply pushed the new power cable in, as he said there's usually space behind the pin. Voila. I couldn't believe it was that simple.

Since our holiday it's been the flu season in Cape Town - swine flu, other flu, and serious pneumonia going around. We've all been sick in turns and James has spent quite a while off school - two weeks a few weeks ago, and then the first three days this week. He could have gone back earlier the first time but we didn't want to risk him getting a more serious infection. He's back to school today. Tomorrow is their dress-up-as-a-Letterland-character day which he's really excited about (yes, he's going to be Jumping Jim).

We had lots of fun celebrating Charis's birthday although she was sick around it. One of the highlights was that the International Space Station was flying directly over Cape Town just around sunset - Danielle and I spotted it the night before (when it came past a bit later) and then on the day we all went outside and saw this yellow "star" moving rapidly across the sky until it disappeared in the Earth's shadow. The next day I found out that the space shuttle came past 5 minutes later and that night they docked. It's fantastic thinking "there are people on that thing whizzing round way up there!"

I've put up some photos mostly from Joy's visit in June but also of us being silly - hopefully more will follow soon.

James had a fantastic first day at school today. A bit nervous (the butterflies in his tummy meant he didn't eat much breakfast), but when we went to fetch him he came running out saying "I love school!" It's the honeymoon phase but it's great to start off so well.

Charis had a fun time with Danielle at Rhodes Memorial while he was there which was great; before she left Mama Mavis got a fright from a gecko in the bathroom; Charis and I went to rescue it and in the end she caught it (by accident I think) in the bath mat and was very proud of herself.

We've uploaded photos from the first day (as well as a few from saying goodbye to Andy and Louise and Mia at the airport)

The world awaits (more photos here...)

It's been a month of refocusing and recovery...

Danielle and I have still felt lots of residual stress from November and December ... I've been struggling to sleep very often and we've both been tired ... Positively we feel like this whole period has pushed us to think through what's important in life and again, and actually prioritize what we need to like never before. Putting the big stones in first - for us that means time with God in prayer and the Bible and worship, quality time with each other and the kids, and having time set aside to planning and decision making and sorting out finances (the things we naturally avoid), as well as good time with friends and family. This has been an encouraging process - we're engaging with life in a new way, and we know that in the long term it'll make a great difference to how we live. One step at a time.

James is starting preschool tomorrow - five mornings a week! It's a wonderful place run by an amazing woman - just 2 classes of 8 kids each, and she has a special place for children going through health issues so she has some understanding of the kinds of challenges he has been facing... He's a bit nervous but mostly excited (when we visited the school with him he was surprised that there were no desks to write exams - in his head school was school and he's heard about exams from our matric friends...) This is going to be a big adjustment to the daily schedule. One implication is that hopefully Charis will have good quality time with Danielle in the mornings - something she's lacked.

James's liver has been a lot better over the last two weeks - there's still discussion about whether it was caused by his drugs or a virus - he's stayed off his anti-convulsant and they've adjusted his chemo slightly, and are investigating what they would need to do if it turns out to be the chemo that's the problem (this could be fairly serious if it developed).

It was also sad to say goodbye to Anni and Richard, Debbie and Jonny and Sammy (going back to Joburg and Bedford), and then Andy and Louise and Mia (moving to the UK). James and Charis really bonded with Sammy and love Mia (as well as the grownups!) so this was hard for them. (We're buying Andy and Louise's car through a deal with my work, which is great, but no compensation!)

It's been quite a week in the Fraser household, featuring James's liver issues, David going to Joburg for the day on Wednesday and Charis being taken for a precautionary blood test to make sure she doesn't have leukemia!

After visiting the gastro-enterologist to check out what's been happening with James's liver, he recommended discontinuing his anti-convulsant (Epilim) to see if that would help the liver recover. But when they got the blood test results the next day, they found that his liver condition has already improved remarkably! Basically all but one of the enzyme levels were back to normal, and the one that wasn't had improved a fair bit as well. James's paediatrician expects that it should come back to normal without changing his drugs, so there's a bit of a debate now as to whether to stop the Epilim or not - his doctor thinks it was probably a transient viral hepatitis (but not the standard Hep A or Hep B)

Since Sunday Charis has been complaining of pains in her legs and on Sunday particularly she was falling over a lot. With those being some of the symptoms that James had in his legs that led to the leukemia we were obviously nervous! So on Wednesday when James had his appointment with his doctor, Danielle asked her what we should do about Charis. She said for our peace of mind it's best to test, so they went straight off and had a blood test! Charis handled it brilliantly and didn't even cry and James was a great support with all his experience of having needles!

We got her blood results later that afternoon and Charis is clear which is great... the only abnormality was that her white blood cell count was even lower than James's which has been low - this apparently means that she's probably had a viral infection recently.

Charis has been struggling a lot and it's hard to tell how much is emotional and how much is her not being well so it helps a bit to know she has been sick. James has also been quite discontent and struggling - he seems to have perked up a bit as his liver seems to have improved... We do wonder if we've all had a virus and that's why we haven't been well. Whichever way we've felt very stretched both physically and emotionally! Discipline with sick and struggling kids feels like a hard balance to get right...

On the positive side both James and Charis have grown up so much recently - Charis is talking away and her vocab is incredible. James is getting all responsible and helpful and ready for going to preschool next year!

Charis trying to eat her pink bunny whilst on holiday in Betty's Bay